We know that opposites attract! You like patterned china, he wants plain. Fortunately, many patterns come with understated dinner plates, accented with a colorful salad plate.

He likes neutrals, you love bold colors! Why not choose buffet plates in vibrant hues to use with neutral dinnerware? Or, jazz up the setting with colored glassware or flatware. Even the linens can add a bright punch.

You prefer platinum, he likes gold. Flatware is available with gold accents. It's fine to mix gold and silver. Half of your dinnerware could be trimmed in platinum, half in gold. Layering metallics makes an ultra-luxury look.

You like formal and he responds,"When are we ever going to use it?" Seize the moment and choose both! Remember that you'll probably entertain on a different scale a few years from now. If you are not afraid to experiment with new ideas, you'll both be pleased with your selections!